tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post1470894941852769907..comments2023-10-24T05:59:25.013-04:00Comments on Helping Make Sense: FailureLisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11473046279048522079noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-75441065156628404442008-11-13T17:00:00.000-05:002008-11-13T17:00:00.000-05:00Oh honey, I am so sorry. Your words really resona...Oh honey, I am so sorry. Your words really resonated with me--people won't let me call it a "failure" either. It's like they worry that I'm apportioning blame, when really I'm just seeing a blank, empty future.<BR/><BR/>You've pulled out of this before, and you will again. But it always hurts. I'm a couple of cycles behind you, but I know what it's like to be the last man standing--the only one where IVF just won't work.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there, and treat yourself with care and love. You deserve it, even if your body failed you.the Babychaser:https://www.blogger.com/profile/12205229469287159556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-55204922840521055352008-11-13T13:01:00.000-05:002008-11-13T13:01:00.000-05:00Damn, I'm sorry.Damn, I'm sorry.Dorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255190971670471758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-32145151601267425702008-11-12T08:41:00.000-05:002008-11-12T08:41:00.000-05:00I am so sorry. I know it hurts and aches really ba...I am so sorry. I know it hurts and aches really bad. And the truth is we may never find out who failed whom. Take a teeny-weeny break. Go away to some place. Just chill out a while. I know that it will not alleviate the pain, but there may be some way by which you can focus on something else. <BR/><BR/>Our mind is sometimes our worst enemy. You know why? Coz it remembers and reminds. <BR/><BR/>Get away for a while....Prayers!..alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679149270839974470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-86011267391679350892008-11-12T07:43:00.000-05:002008-11-12T07:43:00.000-05:00My dearest Lisa. I am so very sorry. I think tha...My dearest Lisa. I am so very sorry. <BR/><BR/>I think that many of us can relate to your feeling of failure: it is so very hard not to feel let down and betrayed - by our doctors, but more especially by our own bodies. <BR/><BR/>You and Glen are both in my thoughts - you have already been through more than I can possibly imagine, and I wish you the strength to survive this latest loss.Ms Heathenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06404067891155971103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-22847552660421825612008-11-11T22:47:00.000-05:002008-11-11T22:47:00.000-05:00I am so sorry. You and Glenn deserve so much bett...I am so sorry. You and Glenn deserve so much better than this. You guys continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.Christihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08092864542182052777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-39312439322271879552008-11-11T21:07:00.000-05:002008-11-11T21:07:00.000-05:00i'm just so sorry.i'm just so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-72686878530272896132008-11-11T18:02:00.000-05:002008-11-11T18:02:00.000-05:00I'm profoundly sorry. :(I'm profoundly sorry. :(Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07923049494756911105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-82456520283730502002008-11-11T15:45:00.000-05:002008-11-11T15:45:00.000-05:00You will get through this. But it just sucks for ...You will get through this. But it just sucks for a while. I'm very sorry for your loss(es).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-4867647455816227972008-11-11T13:32:00.000-05:002008-11-11T13:32:00.000-05:00Lisa, my heart is broken for you.i have no words. ...Lisa, my heart is broken for you.<BR/><BR/>i have no words. I just don't understand this road we are on.<BR/><BR/>Much love to you both.<BR/><BR/>xoxoDagnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06053957505110515102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-13393070930438459412008-11-11T13:15:00.000-05:002008-11-11T13:15:00.000-05:00Oh Lisa, I'm so sorry. We definitely can't control...Oh Lisa, I'm so sorry. We definitely can't control anything in regards to baby making can we?<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry you feel like a failure. I know that you are not, but I know how it feels and it's lousy ... so I'm sorry that you're in the depths ... it's so painful.<BR/><BR/>(((HUGS)))Polly Gamwichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09338430066217324064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-61504546216979220952008-11-11T11:35:00.000-05:002008-11-11T11:35:00.000-05:00I am so so sorry. Take your time and grieve this ...I am so so sorry. Take your time and grieve this loss. I hope to see you blogging again soon. Hugs.Sasha & Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15410971917899319846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-32681480747188620502008-11-10T23:58:00.000-05:002008-11-10T23:58:00.000-05:00Thinking of you, know that things will look better...Thinking of you, know that things will look better soon. Sorry you have this sorrow in your life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-14546346146153784182008-11-10T23:47:00.000-05:002008-11-10T23:47:00.000-05:00Oh Lisa, I am so so sorry.Take care of yourself.Oh Lisa, I am so so sorry.<BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself.Baby Smiling In Back Seathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06483533946303787478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-16273309091507797042008-11-10T23:30:00.000-05:002008-11-10T23:30:00.000-05:00My heart hurts for you! I am so sorry for this "lo...My heart hurts for you! I am so sorry for this "loss" and that is exactly what it is - a loss of so many hopes, dreams and expectations. BUT, it is not the end of your journey, this I know... <BR/><BR/>I pray for you and Glen daily and I wish you time to grieve and heal. Please take care of yourselves.<BR/><BR/>Hugs and more hugs!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08740939355597069712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-43215593420520458792008-11-10T22:16:00.000-05:002008-11-10T22:16:00.000-05:00Sweetheart--I think the brain does that--hold info...Sweetheart--I think the brain does that--hold information at bay and allow us to feel numb because feeling it all at once would be too much. I am so sorry.Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-68354117446326805932008-11-10T21:34:00.000-05:002008-11-10T21:34:00.000-05:00I know exactly how you feel. It is so hard not to...I know exactly how you feel. It is so hard not to feel as if you have failed. People have disagreed with me too when I said that I had failed. <BR/><BR/>But, I do not think that you are a failure. None of us are. <BR/><BR/>You have the strength to get through this, even if you don't feel that you do right now. And, we will be there to hold your hand every step of the way. You will be in my thoughts.Mrs.Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03810703338888705439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-52865255297575882692008-11-10T20:50:00.000-05:002008-11-10T20:50:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry.((HUGS))I'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>((HUGS))thewormshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13304261293993902178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-22689931460962144602008-11-10T17:44:00.000-05:002008-11-10T17:44:00.000-05:00I know what you mean. My body failed me, too. I ...I know what you mean. My body failed me, too. I am so sorry you are in pain. I don't even know you in real life and I am in pain for you. If you want a child and want to carry that child, it may be that your only viable option is donor eggs. At least there is hope in that. Please don't die inside. You do not have to be childless - there is hope. There are 2 other options here: adoption and donor eggs. I know that both are a compromise, some would even say a sacrifice but in the end you would have a child.<BR/>Praying for your peace of mind.shinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00733102091607144448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-78350867991245201002008-11-10T17:39:00.000-05:002008-11-10T17:39:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry. I hope that when the pain lessens yo...I'm so sorry. I hope that when the pain lessens you can find a path to children - however the path may be. In the meantime, we are mourning with you. God bless you.Soapchickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13899175649394809612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-75371755606151580972008-11-10T17:18:00.000-05:002008-11-10T17:18:00.000-05:00(((((HUGS))))))) no words will help right now, but...(((((HUGS))))))) no words will help right now, but please know I am thinking of you and praying for you. May God be with you in this dark hour.Ariellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03968292999660422771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-31642981485302168502008-11-10T17:13:00.000-05:002008-11-10T17:13:00.000-05:00((((hugs)))) simply because no words can help.((((hugs)))) simply because no words can help.nhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08579146100268312887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-25177966375949748702008-11-10T17:03:00.000-05:002008-11-10T17:03:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry. ``I'm so sorry. ``Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06037934293607802134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668297247208435738.post-40271858163451454732008-11-10T16:46:00.000-05:002008-11-10T16:46:00.000-05:00((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))Let me know if you want ...((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))<BR/><BR/>Let me know if you want to vent - I'm here to listen.<BR/>CathyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com